Sunday, May 15, 2016

being in two places at once

greg and i ferried chanda over to the east side today for a tech rehearsal for a dance concert she was in and waited for her at a cafe we found.

checking out the sunday morning scene in the lower east side neighborhood.

ost cafe on grand street.

waiting outside the paul taylor dance company building. she also had a ballet rehearsal that she couldn't miss (which we were waiting to drive her back to). the rehearsal went until 2:40 and she had a 3 pm show which she made just in time (fortunately her group was sixth on the program and so didn't go on until 3:40).

 she has two friends that dance with the paul taylor dance company youth troupe. amelia is on the right . .

and francesca is on the left.

amelia also dances with her in the isadora duncan group which performed two pieces for the youth concert today (that featured six other youth groups from the area): valse brilliante and prelude (both with music by chopin).

 with their friend deychen who came to see the show.

 we walked to sticky rice cafe for thai food afterwards.

 special thai lemonade . . 

 my friend's mother treated us and we had a wonderful time. chanda and i shared a chicken and vegetable pad thai dish and masaman curry (their version was a bit too spicy for me).

Saturday, May 14, 2016

jiggity jig

 it feels so good to be home again . . 

 to be walking around in the neighborhood . . 

 watching all the lights come up as the sun sets . . 

 joining everyone else on their evening repast . . 

 we went to one of our favorite japanese restaurants.

 i had shrimp and vegetable tempura, greg had yaki udon, and chanda had three different sushi rolls: umi shiso, avocado, and shrimp and cucumber.

there's no place like home.

sidewalk ballet school presentation

 long island city had a sidewalk fair today of their neighborhood schools and restaurants and shops. chanda's ballet school participated since they are opening a branch in the area.

the girls walked around handing out flyers and meeting the neighborhood families.

 chanda performed her solo that she will do for the school's recital . . 

and the class performed heir follies group piece from summer 2014 in madison park.

she ran into our good friends anika and stefan who live in the neighborhood . . just around the corner.

with her joffrey ballet friends.

and with new york's finest . . 

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

monday monday on wednesday morning

on monday morning chanda worked on her incandescent light bulb lesson page.

 
we read about photons . . but i still don't see how a carbon or tungsten thread is inserted into the bulb . . and held there . . maybe i need to read her page more carefully. however, i've been distracted as my sister called early around 7 am to say that my dad passed away just a few hours earlier.

 when my friends' parents have died it's been all about them and their mom or dad . . and i've written about them on this blog . . . i've also written about my aunt and uncle. 

my friend kendall has written that she feels when a person's parent dies that it's a tectonic shifting of one's world.

 on monday chanda and i read a lot from jane austen's sense and sensibility. her understanding and description of people's motivations feels like fresh air to me. she sees so clearly. that feels welcome right now.

 our lunch.

 i didn't call korrina until 2:30 which ended up working out well because she took off from work and came and sat with me. 

comfort objects: coffee, yarn, knitting projects, sour dough bread on the rise . . 

 she went through all the pictures which was really fun.

 korrina and her dad.

greg and chanda then came home and we all had some time together around the table before korrina left for brooklyn and we had dinner. it was the best time.

i didn't get ahold of morgana until yesterday. we talked on the speaker phone with chanda. she's in such a pretty place.



my sister and i are planning the memorial service (which will be in connecticut at her church) and the burial. he'll be cremated and then buried out on the island.

Sunday, May 1, 2016

a rainy may day

it was a very pretty rainy day today. greg and i were out early to take care of minerva who was her sweet self . . as long as we didn't pet her too much. 

she likes her space but is always happy to see us.

 chanda visited the sakura matsuri festival with our friend deychen at the brooklyn botanic garden . . the lilacs were in bloom also,

along with the azaleas and tulips.

visiting the bonsai . . 

and under the cherry blossoms.

 greg went to visit the whitney museum . . 

and i went home to work on this knitting project which has sat dormant for two years. miraculously i was able to figure out where i was and am now knitting on clue four. it's a "follow your arrow" knit-a-long project from knitwear designer ysolda teague. korrina and i began it several years ago. i don't think she finished hers either, though she did finish a similar follow your arrow project last year.

morgana sent pictures of her and her austrian family in venice. they're camping on the outskirts and yesterday they visited the fishing island of burano (where the women do a lot of lace work also, i wonder if she saw that).

 san marco in the distance . . 

maybe everyone has their own boat!

chanda and i walked to the michael's craft store when she got back from the cherry blossom festival. i wanted to pick out beads for another knitting project i'm starting with my friend janet. as we came back out of the store we noticed several fire trucks hurling by with their sirens blaring. we looked north up sixth avenue to see so many flashing red lights and sirens that it was a bit scary, especially when we looked up and saw a great black cloud of smoke beginning to unfurl above us to the northeast. chanda was worried that it was the restaurant eataly as they have so many big ovens, but we came to find out when we got home that it was a church on twenty fifth street, saint sava's. here is the new york times article. it's very sad and it was such a beautiful serbian orthodox historic church. only a few hours before it's parishioners had been celebrating easter. thankfully, everyone had left and no one was hurt in the blaze.

on the first of may

here are a few stanzas from a very long spring poem by ralph waldo emerson . . 

may-day

by ralph waldo emerson

when late i walked, in earlier days,
all was stiff and stark;
knee-deep snows choked all the ways,
in the sky no spark;
firm-braced i sought my ancient woods,
struggling through the drifted roads;
the whited desert knew me not,
snow-dridges masked each darling spot;
the summer dells, by genius haunted,
one arctic moon had disenchanted.
all the sweet secrets therein hid
by fancy, ghastly spells undid.
eldest mason, frost, had piled
swift cathedrals in the wild;
the piny hosts were sheeted ghosts
in the star-lit minster aisled.
i found no joy: the icy wind
might rule the forest to his mind.
who would freeze on frozen lakes?
back to books and sheltered home,
and wood-fire flickering on the walls,
to hear, when, 'mid our talk and games,
without the baffled north-wind calls.
but soft! a sultry morning breaks;
the ground-pines wash their rusty green,
the maple-tops their crimson tint,
on the soft path each track is seen,
the girl's foot leaves its neater print.
the pebble loosened from the frost
asks of the urchin to be tost.
in flint and marble beats a heart,
the kind earth takes her children's part,
the green lane is the school-boy's friend,
low leaves his quarrel apprehend,
the fresh ground loves his top and ball,
the air rings jocund to his call,
the brimming brook invites a leap,
he dives the hollow, climbs the steep.
the youth sees omens where he goes,
and speaks all languages the rose,
the wood-fly mocks with tiny voice
the far halloo of human voice;
the perfumed berry on the spray
smacks of faint memories far away.
a subtle chain of countless rings
the next into the farthest brings,
and, striving to be man, the worm
mounts through all the spires of form.

. . . . 

for thou, o spring! canst renovate
all that high God did first create.
be still his arm and architect,
rebuild the ruin, mend defect;
chemist to vamp old worlds with new,
coat sea and sky with heavenlier blue,
new tint the plumage of the birds,
and slough decay from grazing herds,
sweep ruins from the scarped mountain,
cleanse the torrent at the fountain,
purge alpine air by towns defiled,
bring to fair mother fairer child,
not less renew the heart and brain,
scatter the sloth, wash out the stain,
make the aged eye sun-clear,
to parting soul bring grandeur near.
under gentle types, my spring
masks the might of nature's king.
an energy that searches thorough
from chaos to the dawning morrow;
into all our human plight,
the soul's pilgrimage and flight;
in city or in solitude,
step by step, lifts bad to good,
without halting, without rest,
lifting better up to best;
planting seeds of knowledge pure,
through earth to ripen, through heaven endure.